*Note some of this post might be best viewed by those 18 plus, even though there is nothing pornographic one never knows how stuff will be reacted to*

I always put off joing here i can be a bit lazy when it comes to doing things like that, i didn't think i would have much to contribute here until i saw this forum.

Wissa and i have been friends online for about a year i think it's been. For those that don't know me i am male, 29 and from Kelowna BC canada. I am soon to be engaged to the most amzing women I have ever met :wub:

Growing up i never knew if i was gay, straight, bi or tg I was atracted to both sexes but for different reasons. For women it was simply the fact that they are beautiful and so amazing to hang out with... but sexualy i had little to no intrest in them. When it came to guys i had no atracion to them beyond that of friends never was i even the slightest bit interested in a relationship. However there was one aspect about guys i did like ;) beyond that nothing.

Now this is the part that i have not ever talked about on any of the boards before. Going through this time i even had dreams of transition. Somedays i didn't know what i wanted and other days i knew (or at the time thought i knew) what i wanted and that was to be a women. Tried on the clothes so on and so forth and all that stuff. I realized somewhere between 18 and 20 years old that it was not the transition i was looking for.

It was than that i started reading and learning about TS, i finally realized what my delema was. I was not atracted to genetic females and i was not atracted to men... I was atracted to transsexuals. To be a bit more acurate m-f non-op TS.

It was last year while onlien chatting with Raj that she mentioned i should try looking at the personal ads online agian. I decided to take the advice even though i had been there and done that and no success.

It was on www.meetshemale.com taht i found the women that stole my heart. Her name is Tyra and we have been online dating since Oct 5th last year. Yes i remember the date and i plan of celebrating that anniversery every year with her once she moves here.

She has been tg for the last 5 to 6 years and is happy as being non-op. It will always be up to her if she decides to change that but i have already told her many times she is perfect just as she is.

All my life i never had anyone to talk to about these feelings given how conservative my family was at the time. I would not dare talk to them about something of this nature. So i whent through all of this decission making and stress of not really knowing and stress of people finding out all on my own. I can tell you it was NOT easy. It was during this past summer i finnaly told my mom about Tyra being tg and the situation of our relationship. I am still not sure if she is accepting of it or not but she says she is okay with it but knowing her as i do alot of the time even when she says that she is not very comfortable with things.

As for the rest of my family Tyra and i plan to tell them after she gets here so they have time to get to know her first a just Tyra, the women i love.

Some of you that have never seen me before well i hope to get to know you all better... for those that do know me i am sure there is stuff in this post that you where not expecting to see in here.

If anyone has any questions feel free to ask.

:thankyou: BX

ps just so there is no confusion in my case that avatar is not of me but it is of my sweety :wub:

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Hi BX :)

Well this is quite the "pleasant" surprise. I must say, your "sweetie" looks amazing. Those Asian girls are beautiful and Tyra is no exception. Well, I hate to have to resort to using this emote in this particular forum but I see I have no choice....

:envy: :envy: :envy: :envy: :envy:

Welcome aboard BX.

Rachel :wub:

PS. I'm a fellow British Columbian enjoying the natural beauty of our Provincial Capital.

Good for you BX. You are a brave individual! :hug4:

thanks all :D

You know i realized i forgot to mention where Tyra is from, she lives in the Philippines on the main island just south of Manila.

If i could i would move there but i wantto marry her and so far teh Philippines has banned those marriages. They have even gone so far as to make law that you HAVE to be a genetic male and genetic female to get married. Even after a SRS operation it still wouldn't matter to them.

So she will be moving here hopefully by mid summer before her birthday in august... I am planning to through a nice party for her birthday and a beautiful romantic dinner out.


To Rachel... yes i am a very lucky guy, there is also a large GLBT popukation in asia i have noticed. Even though that area is a bit more conservative than most.

That is sooo messed! :angry:

What do they do with intersexed people? They can be both male and female! :wissa:

It's too bad but in light of the ever growing knowledge of our own species one would hope that better informed decisions might be made in the future.

Rachel :wub:

You know you always have my support and I wish the two of you all the happiness in the world. :hugs:

yeah i know, but she will be moving here soon enough and we will be able to get married here :D :cheer:


Heather your avatar is hilarius _lmao_

Great post Bx, Thank you for sharing and Tyra looks really lovely.

Lots of support to you both and I really wish you all the best as you share your situation with your family and friends.

Sue :hug4:

thanks Sue :hug4:

I'd love to hear Tyra's story sometime, BX. (with her permission of course).

Rachel :wub:

well, her and i haven't really talked about the past all that much. We are more interested in the future that being together ofcourse :wub:

But at some point i will see what i can do about talking about it, or having her post it one day.

All fair, BX. :hugs:

Here's to a bright and prosperous future for you both together! :heartbeat: :heartbeat:

Rachel :wub: